How we show up.
Be real.
Use your real name and a recent photo of your face. Get verified before you host or join. One person, one account.
Misrepresenting your age, identity, or photos isn't allowed and is grounds for removal.
Be kind.
Treat everyone the way you'd want a new neighbor to be treated. That means:
- No harassment, threats, hate, or slurs. Full stop.
- No discrimination based on race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexuality, disability, or any other protected characteristic.
- If someone says "no" or doesn't reply, take the hint.
Be inclusive.
Let's is a place where new people get to feel welcome. Hosts can use safety filters (e.g. gender preference) to make a Let's feel right for them, but rejecting a request without reason is fine too. Just be respectful, decline politely, and don't gatekeep based on prejudice.
Show up.
Once you're approved, plan to be there. Things happen (flat tires, sick kids, late buses), but tell the group as soon as you know. Repeated no-shows hurt your vibe score and may limit future invites.
Keep it safe.
Meeting people in real life is fun and a little risky. Use your judgment:
- Meet in public when it's a first-time hangout.
- Tell a friend where you're going.
- Trust your gut. Leave if something feels off.
- You're never required to share your home address, phone number, or social handles. Swap them only if you actively want to.
The no-go list.
These will get content removed and can get your account permanently banned:
- Sexually explicit content, solicitation, or pressuring others romantically or sexually.
- Threats or incitement of violence; doxxing; stalking.
- Promoting illegal activity of any kind.
- Spam, MLM pitches, recruiting, political campaigning, or commercial promotion that isn't itself an authentic gathering.
- Scams, phishing, fake profiles, or impersonation.
- Faking or misrepresenting your identity, age, or photos during verification.
- Photos, videos, or info about another person without their consent.
If something's off.
Tap the report button on a profile, a gathering, or a chat, or email [email protected]. A real person reviews every report. You can also block a profile at any time.
If a peer rating ("vibe score") feels unfair, you can dispute it in the app at Profile → Vibe → Dispute, or by emailing the same address.
If you're in danger right now, please contact local emergency services first.